IMPORTANT ASPECTS OF LIFE. SELF-CONFIDENCE AND MOTIVATION? - gyansblogs

SELF CONFIDENCE A VERY ESSENTIAL FACTOR.

Welcome to gyansblogs  today our main focus will be on confidence.

IMPORTANT ASPECTS OF LIFE ARE SELF-CONFIDENCE AND MOTIVATION. YES SELFCONFIDENCE AND MOTIVATION ARE VERY IMPORTANT IN ONES LIFE.

Self-confidence means being assured in your own worth, ability, and power, regardless of the situation you are in. Someone who is self-confident has a strong sense of self-belief and certainty in him/herself. He/she exudes calmness, composure, and is self-aware. Self confidence means the faith an individual has in himself. An individual who has confidence in himself/herself knows his worth, ability, goods and bad.

Whereas the individual who lacks self confidence undervalue what they are capable of.Take blame even when it is not their fault. Being overly shy and reserved. Overly critical of themselves. Being hung up over negative outcomes and past failures. Preassupmtion with the negative outcomes and failure even though it has not happened yet. Having a fearful and adverse attitude toward most things.Do things to please others.

What does lack of self confidence cause?

It makes us inferior from other. It makes us feel shy. It makes one ashamed. It also makes an individual feel like he/she is a burden and the people around are just making fun of him/her. Lack of confidence may also cause anxity or mental disorder. Even if the people laugh or smile the person thinks they are laughing on him/her, person start thinking or doubting  about his dressing style, walking style or he/she  also start doubting about their physique and appearance. They think people are making fun of their appearance. This in terms may cause serious mental issue or disorder in an individual.

When you are constantly thinking about a negative outcome, it takes your focus off what you should be doing to achieve your ideal state, which leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy. And when an undesirable outcome gets manifested, your (negative) belief gets enforced and you continue to feel low, and  lower your self-confidence. 

Self-confidence is clearly an asset in life. Not only does it make you feel better emotionally and mentally, but it also sets you up toward achieving your goals. When you’re confident, it helps you fearlessly pursue your goals. It gives you the belief to conquer your challenges, no matter how big or impossible they seem.

However, most people have low confidence because of past events in their life. They are placed in an endless cycle where they feel unsure of themselves, think about all possible bad results, and attract bad results due to this thinking, which then reinforces their negative self-belief. So its better to move on from past bad experience. For example an individual holds a bar in his hand if he/she holds it for a minute than it will cause nothing but if he/she holds it for 1 hour his/her hands  start paining and if he/she holds the same bar for one whole day than his hand can get paralysed or may cause any other severe issue. Likewise if you hold the oast for 1 minute than its ok, bt holding it for days, minths and year will make you mentally weak and depressed. So moveon from your bad experience as fast as posible.

Whenever you get into a situationwhere you don’t feel confident, ask yourself: Why am I not feeling confident? Where is this uncertainty coming from? What am I attaching my self-worth to?

When you do these, you will find yourself filled with a sense of self-worth that is there no matter what happens. You will find that this self-worth is what leads you to the outcomes you desire and helps you become your highest self. 🙂

Remember one thing confidence of a person is the first thing that attracts people. People see the confidence in ur talk , in your walk. They judge you on the basis of confidence or faith you have in yourself. If a person has faith in himself/gerself he/she can cope up with  any problem or situation. He/she will be easily able to tact the situation. So the most important aspect for being succesful is that you should be confident about ur action decission and steps taken. In other words confidence of a person decides the success of a person.

“Confidence is a resolute state of mind by which you believe nothing is impossible.”

“Confidence is not a guarantee of success, but a pattern of thinking that will improve your likelihood of success, a tenacious search for ways to make things work.”

#HAVEFAITHINYOURSELF

SELF-CONFIDENCE IS THE BEST MOTIVATION AN INDIVIDUAL HAS. HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF AND THE THINGS WILL FALL AS YOUR EXPECTATION.

                            :- (GYANENDRA BISWAL)