WHAT'S BULLYING OR RAGGING/SOLUTION? FRIENDS CIRCLE RAGGING- gyansblogs

IS THESE BULLYING OR RAGGING? 

Hello guys welcome to gyansblogs.  So our todays topic will be somewhat related to bullying and ragging
WHAT'S BULLYING OR RAGGING/SOLUTION? FRIENDS CIRCLE RAGGING.
Have you ever come across under situation where your own friend tries to bully or threaten you. Is these bullying or ragging. Whats friend circle Bullying lets know about it.
Friends, a group that heals you up. That motivates you to do great. The one supporting you each and every time. These is not only one phase there is other side too, They make you happy, than on another side they make fun of you. They think good for you but they will be one insulting you in friends circle. Friends means a boon in one's life. They are there for you in all your up and downs. 
But have you been bullied or ragged by your friends. Ya.. I am really eager to know these , so are you? 
Have you ever been treated very badly and insultingly by friends. These is a very severe issue of which we don't talk much. But deep down we all know that these is happening. We can say bullying or ragging as well or something different.
These friends don't wanna share your problems instead they try to push you into the trouble. They will not be there for you in your good but they will there in your bad not to boost you, but to put you down and to make you feel low. For example your trying to recover over some bad experience or bad past. They know, that talking about it will hurt you, but than too they keep on saying that same thing. They make you feel bad. Not only, they stop here they try to cover nonsense and disgusting things in these topic. 

Why do they do these? 
Why do we do these?
Sometimes we are also the part of same. Whats main motto ?
Just to make you feel sad!! Just to hurt you!! Just to make you inferior in front of others. Just to give others a topic of attraction. To make oneself cool and other one sad. To make you so weak that you dont wanna feel like standing in front or with them. You yourself will feel so bad that you will be wishing to leave that place immediately. No maater how strong, how motivated or how well to do you are, you will feel rejected and your head will be down. No matter how boosted you are, you are going to break down. The friends that say that we are there for you in your good as well as bad are only the reason to make you feel sad. Is these right and if we talk about it than they say that we have been in same situation. These is just for timepass purpose. We are good we are these that,blaahh blahh and blahh. I know they must have seen same but everyone does not have same thing in common. Some take the situation very seriously and some take it casually. Some give bad experience and some gets bad experience. Some take it as lesson and for some you it is very painfull. In human all five fingers are not same. Like wise all human are not same. For some everything is cool and chill and for some its very degradful, de-motive and worse phase of life. So is it right , is it so right and fair, that you make one so weak that they feel like disgusting or feel like crying.  
Whats your answer, whats your point of view. Everyone has some phase in life good or bad. Some move on and some take time to get over  it. We can think everyone is same but are we?
I know friends circle is meant for making jokes, kicking your ass but isn't there some point or some extent that they should stop. Is it right to take that one topic a centre of attraction. Is it right to make fun of someones past, belongings and their style. Is it right to isolate that one bad past as an example to demotivate and make one feel so sad. 
Everything is not depression,  i don't think they are making you depressed but what is these? What can we say these. Whats the outcome of these only some hahaha in friends and nothing else. Group circle laugh and they leave, but do they come to know what that person is feeling or how unstable the person is, by listening to that statement , you made the person demotivated, degraded, forcing some one to hide or leave the place. We never know what our single or fun statement be like for the front person. A single word can make someones moment or can destroy that moment. One simple word which means nothing to one can make huge difference to others.
We cannot be the reason for someones good, but lets not be the reason for somrones bad. If we know that these thing is gonna hurt one than lets not try speaking. Lets make someones day by saying nothing or been there for them qnd saying good.
We all come across these. But we neglect it without knowing what mental pressure the individual is facing. Ya making fun of friends is ok but making fun of them over their past and incidents, is not appropriate. Instead of being an asshole lets try to be good friends. Instead of demotivating someone lets be the reason of someones motivation. These is a very severe issue which is been taken casually. Numbers of childrens  commit sucide or face mental disorder  or other problems of these. So instead of pushing friends to past lets push him towards success.
I know most of readers may think these is irrelevant topic or there is nothing like these. But its a fact its happening. We can't really name it as ragging or bullying but its an issue. There are also many such who can relate themself with these.
"According to me to stop these one should totally ignore everything. He/she should focus on other positive things rather to focus on negativity". Here ignorance is the best medicine. The victims or the peers facing these may also talk to their close one's and say them whatever they feel like. These will not only help in facing issue but will also help in reducing stress level. And the best thing one can do is keep on smiling whenever these nusense take place.

I know we all have seen these. So what is these?
how can we restrict these? 
What type of friendship is these?
Just trying to seek an answer, if you know you can answer in comment section. And guys, feel free to connect to us and ask your quieries.

IF YOUR GOING THROUGH ANY SUCH SITUATION YOU CAN CONTACT US. YOU CAN TALK TO US. WE ARE ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU TO TALK AND SHARE YOUR PROBLEMS. WE ARE ALWAYS THERE TO SHARE YOUR LONLINESS AND A BOND OF FRIENDSHIP. WE ARE THERE TO LISTEN TO YOUR ISSUES, WE WILL BE HAPPY TO HELP YOU.

**Note** :- ALL FRIENDS ARE NOT LIKE THESE, THESE BLOG DOESN'T MEAN THAT WE SHOULD NOT MAKE FRIENDS OR HAVE SOME. ITS ONLY ENLIGHTENING SOME ISSUES WHICH IS VERY SERIOUS BUT ARE NOT TAKEN SERIOUSLY.
                                           WRITTER :-GYAN


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